Brave

Hannah was asked if she wanted to do a certain part in her dance recital. It was a part that would've totally fit her personality but for some reason she said no.

Deni and I were blown away because normally she would've jumped at the opportunity. Then at cheering we noticed that she wasn't as "cheerful" as normal.

We asked her about it and after a few questions she explained she didn't want people to laugh or tease her for doing something different. This crushed us as parents because unfortunately we cannot guard our little girls heart from hurt.

We decided to talk to her about having courage and being brave. Being brave means trying even if ur afraid. We shared stories from our lives where we messed up big time and guess what - people laughed and made fun of us. We had a lot of laughs but I think Hannah understood people are going to laugh and make fun so she might as well have fun doing what she wants to do.

My point: fear keeps us from trying. Fear makes us more concerned about not being laughed at. Fear stops us from being ourselves. Fear makes us worry about what other people are going to think or say. Fear keeps us from being brave. Fear is a liar.

Hannah is brave and as parents we have to keep reminding her of that. Fear is supported by lies but being brave is rooted in courage.