Are u "that guy" (or girl)?
If u ask a question so u can answer it
If u interrupt a story so u can tell urs
If u think ur the most interesting person u know
If u walk into a group and immediately take the focus
If u walk into a room and think "here I am" instead of " here they are"
If u are supposed to be listening but can't repeat back anything that was said
If u are in a conversation and are waiting for a pause so u can talk
If while ur talking about yourself ur hoping when u finish the others will tlk about you
If u answer "yes" to any of these - you are that person.
My point: what do people like to talk about - "themselves". You should be different. Let others talk an get to know them. You will be more likable when people like how they feel when ur around.
Instead of telling ur story ask them to "tell me more" and watch what happens.
The truth is - ur probably not that interesting anyway - just sayin
What would u add to this list - tell me more...
Saturday, September 22, 2012
I was looking over past posts and realized that blogger and I have a 5+ year relationship. That's just too long to walk away.
My point: there are so many places to interact with social media and one day maybe we will all be on the same one but until then I will keep blogging on blogger and posting on Facebook and tweeting on twitter and I'm even now enjoying google circles not to mention Instagram... I just got a headache thinking about them all.
Anyway, I'm back on blogger - for now