brother to brother

I got a symbol on Wed. I didn't say a tattoo because it is much more than that. It is a symbol of brotherhood, loyalty and unity.

There are only 5 other people in the world that have this symbol. It was created as a family crest for the men of the Stephens family. Because my friendship with them has grown over the years, they have asked me to join the mob - I mean brotherhood.

I love these people like they are my own brothers and I would do anything in the world for them. I didn't need to put ink in my skin to show this, but now there is a visible - outward expression of my internal dedication, loyalty and friendship.

Each little detail represents something different. Each detail was thought out and is symbolic. It is an honor to be asked to wear this symbol of brotherhood.

My point: When you have great friends, it truly is the greatest treasure in the world. It is amazing to know that there are people there for me no matter what.

Brother to Brother

If you are having a hard time making out the details of the symbol, it's probably because of the muscular canvas it is on...

the truth

http://johntehaug.blogspot.com is a blog you simply must read.

The author is a great friend from my military days. His witty insight and biting sarcasm far surpasses mine. You may know him from the comments that he makes on my blog aka "the truth".

I hope you will read his blog regularly and enjoy his humor (or lack thereof) as much as I do.

My point: you are a butt-hole if you don't read his blog. (sorry, that may be a bit strong. You are just not cool unless you check out his blog)

side note: this is not a pic of him.

poop in the tub

Hannah loves her bath. We have a whole routine we go through when it is bath time. We start with a question of "who's that baby gonna get that bath?". Hannah begins to dance and we break out in song as we head toward the bathroom. It only gets better from there.

We then get into the tub followed by the massive amount of tub toys. Then the real fun begins. We spell words with the tub letters, have water fights with Dora and Boots and splash like crazy.

One evening I was on the phone while Hannah was playing and I looked down to see a big ol' turd coming out of her cute little butt. I told the person I would have to call them back "Hannah just pooped in the tub". I grabbed her out of the tub and then scooped the poop out and into the proper place - THE TOILET!!!

I had to wash all the toys. Some went to the washing machine while others found their way into the dishwasher. Then I went and scrubbed the tub. It was quite an adventure.

My point: don't poop in the tub. It ruins the fun and quite frankly, it's really gross.

a healthy colon

I joined a gym this month. I, like every other American, have decided enough is enough. I am going to make working out a priority.

I know, you are thinking "YOU? You are so hot and good looking already". Well as true as that is (I am humble too...), it isn't all about looks. I want to be healthy. I want to be healthy in appearance and on the inside -literally.

I am ordering a 30 day colon cleanse. I read that most of us are only able to absorb a fraction of the vitamins and nutrients that the good food we eat has to offer. This is a picture of what came out of someone (supposedly). That is because of all the garbage we put in our bodies. Because of all the bad stuff we take in, it makes it hard to absorb the good stuff... hmmmmm, sounds like life.

I read a definition of "hard hearted". It defined hard heart as "overexposure and under-response to truth". In other words, we hear the truth but we never apply it to our lives. We have so much bad in our system, it makes it nearly impossible to absorb the good. You can't fill a glass full of dirt with water. You can use the water to clean out the dirt but even if you combine the two, you get mud...

Our minds, like our colons need a good cleansing. I am making it a priority to be healthy inside and out. I am constantly renewing my mind by focusing on scripture that will help clean the dirt out and become refreshed. I don't want to be able to hear the truth and not be affected in a positive way.

My point: you need a thorough cleansing. Start filtering what you watch, listen to, talk to, eat, etc. Rid your mind of the dirt and rid your colon of the junk that is in it so you can absorb the good stuff.

Let me know if you want in on the cleanse. It is cheaper if I order more... Act fast, I am ordering Friday the 11th.

www.drnatura.com here is the site I am ordering from if you want to read up on your colon health.

daddy's little princess

Since the new baby, Raegan has arrived, I have been on "Hannah duty". That just means while mommy takes care of Raegan, I get to cater to Hannah's every little whim and request. I have been spending a lot more time with her and I love it.

I love watching her grow and all the neat little things she does. Her latest is playing dress up. When she put on her Christmas dress she kept calling herself a princess. Of course I played it up and made the biggest deal of how beautiful my little princess is. Ever since that day, when I ask "where's daddy's little princess?" - Hannah shouts "here I am!!!". It is so precious.

Now when I come home, I immediately shout "where's daddy's little princess?" and Hannah comes running shouting "here I am!" and jumps into my arms. The funny thing is that even if I see her, I still ask where is daddy's little princess and even though she knows I see her, she still answers. I guess there isn't really a reason to ask where she is if I already know... or is there?

The reason I ask is because I want her to know that she is my little princess. I want her to know that she is special to daddy. I want her to know that I am excited to see her, I want her to know what I think of her. I want her to know that she is the apple of my eye (one of them anyway).

I think this is a lesson for us. I believe we disappoint God when we view ourselves less than what He says we are. When we accpt Christ, He calls us His children and tells us we are a new creation. We are made new, we are more than conquerors. There are so many other things He says about how He sees us. If we want to know what God thinks of us, we simply need to read His book. It tells us what He thinks of us. We let Him down when we choose to think less of ourselves than He does.

What is your response when God calls "where is Daddy's little princess?" or "where is Daddy's soldier/warrior?". Do we proudly yell while running to Him - "HERE I AM!!" or do we look around and wonder who is He talking to?

My point: If you don't believe you are all that God calls you, you are wrong. In fact you are even telling God he is wrong if you don't believe it. God says that you are created with a plan and a purpose but you say you are worthless - you are calling God a liar. Be careful with that.

Get in God's word and begin to believe what He says about you, not what others say.

my daughter did my hair

I have to admit I love it when other people mess with my head. I love getting haircuts, when they shampoo it, comb it, whatever. It is just so relaxing and calming.

My 11 yr old, Shayna thought it would be funny to do daddy's hair. I didn't really care how funny it would be, I just knew it would feel good and relax me, so I let her.

She took about 30 minutes to get my short hair in these little rubber bands. She put 30 of them all over my head. I LOVED IT, I nearly fell asleep 3 times but my head kept bobbing and it messed her up so she had to keep waking me.

Anyway, then she finished and it was time to look at how good she did. I went to the mirror and this is what I saw. I think she did pretty good.

I have to say, I got some pretty strange looks from other people when I went to church (whatever, like I really went to church like this!). Actually, I think I scared Hannah (my 2 yr old red head) and my wife (my 30 something red head) but I wasn't going to destroy all the work Shayna put into this masterpiece. I guess she did the best she could with what what she had to work with.

My point: I chose to spend some quality time with my kid. Everyday, we make choices about how we spend our time. This year I am going to be more intentional about spending time with the people I love. I want my time to say "I love you" as much as my words do.

Of course I got a head massage and a really cool hairdo out of the deal, but it was some great quality time that I will always remember. Party like a rockstar!!!

disclaimer: feel free to make multiple copies to distribute to all your friends

New Year Devo

Here is one of my favorite devotionals for a new year, enjoy.

Isaiah 52:12 “You shall not go out with haste,… for the Lord will go before you, and the God of Israel will be your rear guard.”

Security from Yesterday
God requires an account of what is past (Ecc 3:15)
At the end of the year we turn with eagerness to all that God has for the future. Yet sometimes we are a little nervous when we remember our yesterdays. We ask “How will this year be different?”. Our present enjoyment of God’s grace tends to be lessened by the memory of yesterday’s sins and blunders, but God is the God of our yesterdays, and He allows the memory of them to turn the past into a ministry of spiritual growth for our future. God reminds us of the past to protect us from a very shallow security in the present. Don’t you sometimes wish you could forget the past? If you are not careful you will fall into the same things God delivered you from

Security for Tomorrow “…the Lord will go before you…”
This is a gracious revelation – that God will send His forces out where we have failed to do so. He will keep watch so that we will not be tripped up again by the same failures. As would undoubtedly happen if He were not our “rear guard”. God’s hand reaches back to the past. Settling all the claims against our conscience. We no longer have to carry the guilt, heartache, bitterness… because He settles it

Security for Today You shall not go out with haste…
As we go forth into the coming year, let it not be with the quickness of impulsive thoughtlessness. Let us go out with the patient power of knowing that God will go before us. Our yesterdays hold broken and irreversible things for us. Learn & grow from it

It is true that we have lost opportunities that will never return, but God can transform this destructive anxiety into a constructive thoughtfulness for the future. Let the past rest, but let it rest in the sweet embrace of Christ

My point: Leave the broken, irreversible past in His hands. Step out into the invincible future with Him

What are 3 things you will do different or change in '08?

Happy new year, MAKE it a good one.